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People who live in glass houses are not supposed to throw stones.
The aim of a good general is not to fight but to win.
Destiny is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
I'd rather have roses on my table than diamonds on my neck.
Their family was made to sell their house for nothing and to leave the town.
Ann would sooner miss her class than refuse to go to a disco.